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I have been the other woman before and to be honest it is hard for your alternate lives not to cross. Women are emotional creatures and will want more of you than you can give. My lover kept his lives separate, but it was hard, he had a pay as you go cell to call me on, when he was with his wife he and I had no contact. When he was with me it was the same with her. His work helped because he traveled alot. I know he and I set the ground rules from the start, and if it was to much for one of us, we agreed to tell the other and walk away. I dont condone this but am not foolish enough to not know it happens. I am a firm believer that no one person can meet all your needs, it is up to you wether you are willing to give up those needs and be faihful to one. I p no judgement, I hope it works out for all involved.